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Change Your Spending Habits, Change Your Life

Tis the Season to Overspend Your Budget – Fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la!

Let me guess—you’ve caught yourself humming this new twist on a holiday carol. It’s all fun and games until you realize it might just describe your Christmas spending habits. The twinkling lights, the cheerful carols, the festive sales—it’s like the entire season conspires to make us forget about our budgets.

According to a NY Post survey, “the average American will spend over $2000 this season.” That’s a serious chunk of change. And yet, how many of us actually plan to spend that much? For most, the holiday spirit sweeps us away, and before we know it, the New Year arrives, bringing a hefty dose of financial regret.

The truth is, overspending during the holidays isn’t just about the gifts or the parties. It’s about mindset. We tell ourselves, “It’s the season for giving,” and often, we give until it hurts. January arrives, and the glow of Christmas fades—replaced by a credit card statement that feels more like carrying a dark and heavy burden than the light of this joyous season.

But here’s the thing: it doesn’t have to be this way.

With a little planning and a shift in perspective, you can celebrate the season without wrecking your budget. Picture this: closing out the holidays with no debt, no stress, and no regret. It’s not a fantasy—it’s a decision. One that you have control over.

As a Licensed Financial Professional, I’ve seen how small, intentional changes can lead to big transformations. It starts with deciding to steward your finances differently. And no, stewarding doesn’t mean cutting out all the fun—it means aligning your spending with your goals and values.

10 Ways to Spend Smarter This Christmas

Here are a few strategic ways to do just that:

  • Make a plan: Write down who you’re buying gifts for, what you’d like to give, and how much you’re willing to spend. It’s easier to stay in control when you see it all laid out.
  • Get creative: Homemade treats (i.e. Chocolate chip cookies), heartfelt notes, or even an evening of quality time can mean more than an expensive gift.
  • Shop smart: Compare prices online, wait for sales, and consider giving belated gifts when post-Christmas deals hit.
  • Rethink traditions: Suggest a Secret Santa exchange or limit gift-giving to the kids. Simplifying traditions can bring just as much joy without the financial strain.

Change Your Holiday Tune

The beauty of these strategies is that they don’t just save money—they shift your mindset. And that’s the point, right? You stop seeing Christmas as a spending spree and start experiencing it as a season of intention, connection, and joy. Remember, when you change your spending habits, you change your life.

When you embrace this approach, something amazing happens: you take control of your finances, not just for the holidays, but for the future. Planning for 2025 starts now. It’s not about saying “no” to the season—it’s about saying “YES” to a healthier financial life.

If you’re ready to break the cycle of overspending and create a plan that works for you, let’s talk. Email me at vernicia@step-consultinggroup.com, and we’ll build a strategy tailored to your goals. Together, we’ll make sure next Christmas is your most financially empowered one yet.

This year, my friends, let’s rewrite the carol as a celebration of your new mindset and spending habits: ‘Tis the season to be jolly—and smart with your money – Fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-la!

Vernicia T. Green

Vernicia T. Green is a licensed financial professional with WFG helping middle income families make and save money, save on taxes and create generational wealth. She provides counseling and coaching resources for single women. Vernicia is the Founder of the Stepping Into Purity and Beyond Group, the author of Stepping Into Purity and Creator of the 12-SIP, a 6-week healing program helping single women recover from heartbreak, rediscover their identity, reignite purpose, plan their financial future while preparing for marriage. Vernicia worked as a director and counselor in the pregnancy medical industry for close to 20 years. She received her Masters degree from Regent University and her Bachelor’s degree from Norfolk State University. Vernicia became a Certified Traumatologist with the Green Cross School of Traumatology. She traveled to South Africa, Haiti, and Nicaragua to provide leadership training to local leaders responding to crisis victims and to Ghana for ministry.

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